Wednesday, October 7, 2009

The Big Anniversary

Monday will be 1 year since Mom died.  I keep shying away from thinking about it.  Last weekend, when I was putting away my summer clothes, I thought about last year - I had just gathered up my summer clothes and had not moved them yet to their winter storage location - which made it easy for me to find shorts and shirts when we had to make the fast run to Florida.  This weekend we will be traveling to Milwaukee for a conference.  Last year we were in Louisville.  We received the call about Mom early Saturday morning in our hotel room - right before we left for the day session.  We checked out immediately and headed for Cincinnati - planning the long drive to Fort Myers. We contacted Matt - so he could get to Dad.  And learned the Bobby Bravard was also there for Dad, and Susan and Chuck were on the way. Our suitcase was basically packed - we just had to substitute our summer clothes, and our funeral clothes - just in case we needed them.   By the time we reached Cincinnati - the trip to Fort Myers was planned,  Julie, Curt and the kids, Joe and I, and Lauren - Elaine's daughter would all make the long trek to Fort Myers - without stopping - just in case.  Maybe everything would be OK.
So this weekend we'll be in Milwaukee.  Dad's growing cancer is weighing heavily on my mind.  I think next year I'll just hibernate the second weekend in October.

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